How To Be a Guest
Jesus saw how the guests had tried to take the best seats. So he told them: When you are invited to a wedding feast, don?t sit in the best place. Someone more important may have been invited. Then the one who invited you will come and say, "Give your place to this other guest!" You will be embarrassed and will have to sit in the worst place.
When you are invited to be a guest, go and sit in the worst place. Then the one who invited you may come and say, "My friend, take a better seat!" You will then be honored in front of all the other guests. If you put yourself above others, you will be put down. But if you humble yourself, you will be honored.
Then Jesus said to the man who had invited him: When you give a dinner or a banquet, don?t invite your friends and family and relatives and rich neighbors. If you do, they will invite you in return, and you will be paid back. When you give a feast, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. They cannot pay you back. But God will bless you and reward you when his people rise from death.
The Great Banquet
After Jesus had finished speaking, one of the guests said, "The greatest blessing of all is to be at the banquet in God?s kingdom!" Jesus told him: A man once gave a great banquet and invited a lot of guests. When the banquet was ready, he sent a servant to tell the guests, "Everything is ready! Please come."
One guest after another started making excuses. The first one said, "I bought some land, and I?ve got to look it over. Please excuse me."
Another guest said, "I bought five teams of oxen, and I need to try them out. Please excuse me." Still another guest said, "I have just gotten married, and I can?t be there." The servant told his master what happened, and the master became so angry that he said, "Go as fast as you can to every street and alley in town! Bring in everyone who is poor or crippled or blind or lame."
When the servant returned, he said, "Master, I?ve done what you told me, and there is still plenty of room for more people." His master then told him, "Go out along the back roads and fence rows and make people come in, so that my house will be full. Not one of the guests I first invited will get even a bite of my food!"